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Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Glenn Beck - My Hero

Unfortunately for my boys, they don't get to listen to too much happy children's music as we are driving around town. Our radio is pretty much set only on 94.3 - talk radio - CONSERVATIVE talk radio. Glenn Beck comes on from 9-12 weekdays. Luckily, this tends to be the time we most spend in the car, so this is the guy we most listen to. I pretty much agree with just about everything he says. He is very conservative. He believes is God and acknowledges the importance of being strong in your faith. Recently he has been advertising his book The Christmas Sweater. He also mentioned that he was going to be in town signing books on Dec 16.
Naturally, I called Bryant that afternoon and told him to meet us there. The line was not too long and it moved relatively quickly. I had really wanted to get a picture of Glenn with the boys, but they had asked you not to because it would really slow things down. I understood that, but I had still told myself that I would sneak one in. But as in most situations, I chickened out when the time came. Still, I'm so glad we were able to do this as a family, and I can only hope that our boys share our same conservative views when they grow up. Heaven knows, I'm doing all I can to build a good foundation for that right now.
When we got home, we got our only family picture in front of the Christmas tree. It's amazing what a little tripod and a timer on a camera can do. I think the boys just liked watching me run back and jump into place over and over again. There were lots of outtakes, and Reeves even proved he's turning into quite the little photographer himself.

Saturday, November 29, 2008

Family Day

Family Days are a wonderful tradition that our group of friends has tried to begin so that we know that at least once a month all the children and parents will get together. It is mainly for the dads, since the moms and the babes are together a lot. (It keeps us sane.) It's amazing to watch our growing brood interact with each other when the dads are around. While they are content to go and play by themselves and pretty much leave us alone, when the dads are there, they really want them to be involved.
There were plenty of leaves to keep them occupied. They would build themselves big piles and promptly destroy them, simultaneously being showered in a downpour of leaves.
It was a perfect day for going on lots of adventures, eating yummy hot dogs cooked over the fire, collecting hickory nuts, collecting dinosaur bones, and driving all over on the golf carts. The children loved having smores and getting them all over themselves. A few of us even ventured out over the marsh all the way to the ICW. This trip was extra exciting because there was a sailboat that had run aground across the river. This, of course, prompted all kinds of questions from curious little minds. "What's it doing there?" "How did it get up there?" "Is it going to be there forever?" I think if they had had a row boat, they all would have gone over to check it out.
After everyone left, we stayed in The Back to clean up and let the boys run out the last of their energy. Reeves showed Bennet the ins and outs of his blue jeep, and they even got some good bounce time in on the home made joggling board. Daddy is a good bouncer.
We are looking forward to our next Family Day. It won't be long before we're once again turning Family Days into Family Boat Days. We can't wait! Thank you to everyone who came out. You all made it a wonderful, memorable day!

Thanksgiving 2008

We spent Thanksgiving in the country this year with Bryant's family.
The big boys were fascinated with the turkey. They loved running up to it on the counter, leaning in really close, and sniffing. You would have thought this might translate into a large amount of the bird being consumed by Reeves, but you would be wrong. His quest (at his grandparents' house) to subsist only on things containing sugar continued. He ate the marshmallows off the sweet potatoes and the broccoli and grapes from the broccoli salad with that sweet dressing. Oh yes, and he did partake in the pumpkin pie for dessert. You know, because he had earned it. (Sometimes it's just easier to throw in the towel and go with the flow.)
Bennett, of course, ate like a champ and then enjoyed his time with Grandy. It seems to me that children sometimes tend to latch onto one grandparent at a time, and for Benny, right no at least out there, it's Grandy. As soon as we walk in their house, he is pouring himself out of my arms to get into Grandy's. I love it, and, naturally, so does Big Reeves.
After dinner, the big boys and I went on a nature walk. We found many treasures, most notably, a turkey feather. Preston decided it would best be used as an Indian headress.We spotted an owl almost as soon as we got back there. It amazed me as it didn't really fly away from us. It would move a couple of limbs away, but for the most part was content to sit and watch us watch him. The boys loved it. I have rarely seen an owl out like this in the daytime. It was quite a treat.
Reeves and Preston indulged me in taking some pictures. I wish I had had the big camera, but I continue to be impressed by this little point and shoot.Preston was much more agreeable than Reeves, but somehow, the older cousin was able to persuade the younger one to cooperate, and I actually ended up with a couple of shots I wouldn't even mind printing.Naturally, I had to take advantage of the video feature. Bryant had come back to gather up some firewood, and the boys had been helping him. They were thoroughly impressed with themselves. They really got into the picture taking when we returned to the back and built a fire. Of course, now it was time for silly faces. I think the tossing of leaves and the ambient smoke from the fire brings out the goofy in them. And where they get their endless energy, I'll never know. I wish I had one tenth of it. Since Family day was the next day, we were spending the night out there, so we were able to spend a little extra time by the fire. It was a good Turkey Day, and my boys loved waking up together at their grandparents' house.

Thursday, November 27, 2008

No More! No More! No More!

So, apparently, since I got my new point and shoot camera (Thanks, Nancy, for making me love yours so much!), I have gone a little picture/video happy. Usually, Reeves is a pretty good sport about donning his required "Cheese!" pose and indulging me in my habit. Unfortunately, somewhere in the past week or so, I exceeded even his quota. And now that I have a camera with video on it, he finds the blasted thing pointed at him for long periods of time. So, here we were, just Reeves and me, enjoying a quiet morning in The Back. It was beautiful, and the weather was just cool enough to really enjoy a little heat from a fire. I must point out that by the time I took this video, I had already had him explain to me twice, on video, how to build and start a fire, and I had sprinkled in a few (dozen) still photos.

Anyway, it's hard to blame him for his frustration with me, and it does make for some pretty entertaining stuff. I guess once his dad got back there, he was DONE with the camera. I'm sure we'll try to get this one on the rehearsal dinner video.

Still, I was able to snap a few still shots after this. It was a special day because Reeves got to spend it with both of his grandfathers and his aunt Lolly. Days like this seem to be few and far between given everyone's busy schedules. I'm glad I had the camera. Sorry, Son, you've got three choices. Learn to live with it. Move to a place with absolutely no beauty near it at all. Or quit being so cute. It's up to you.


Keep smiling, Monk!

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

My Little Cherub

This year, Reeves has started choir at church. At first he wasn't too crazy about it. I think he spent most of the first practice standing outside the room watching and pouting. But it wasn't long before he warmed up to the idea. I think the lollipops Ms. Jo gives out after each practice had a lot to do with it and the playground time afterward. Nevertheless, he now looks forward to it every Wednesday. His friend, MK, is in the choir as well, and I know he loves seeing her each time. He always checks with me before we leave the house to make sure she is going to be there.
The Cherub Choir has now sung twice in church. The first time, Reeves did not want to put on his robe (even though I showed him that it had a bow tie just like Daddy's) and cowered behind the corner before going into church. But he did it. He stood up in front of the church, and, although I don't think he actually sang, he did manage to be strong and not cry or make a spectacle. We were so proud of him.
The second time they sang, he was a bit more amenable. He happily donned his robe, and marched right in to the church. We couldn't tell if he was actually singing, but I am going to assume he did, since I had heard snippets of the song in the days before the "production".Here he is, fourth up from the bottom on the front row. We are so proud of our little angel for looking fear right in the eye and overcoming it. I won't make him do it next year if he really doesn't want to, but it makes me happy to see how well he has acclimated to this new activity.

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Free Night at The Children's Museum

NEVER AGAIN!!!!

So, I don't know, about a year and a half ago, or right after whenever the last time it was that I blogged in a half hearted attempt to document and remember any single part of my children's childhoods, Morn called to see if I wanted to take the boys to the free night at the Children's Museum of the Lowcountry (CML hereafter). We have a membership, but Gams and Pops were going, Casey was out of town, and Bryant would still be at work, so I figured, "Why not?" Honestly, Dear Friends of Mine, if I ever again even hint at the idea of going to a "free to the general public" thing in an enclosed space with the children again (especially without their father), don't hesitate, don't blink, just smack me across the face and remind me of how much I enjoy watching my children get trampled by thundering herds of tweens and abnormally giant elementary schoolers. Remind me that Bennett is prone to get tangled up in the middle of any situation that can cause him bodily injury, and why do I want to make it worse than it is on any regular day. Suffice it to say, I'm not a fan of these scenarios, and call me elitist, but I'll be going to the CML from now on only on the Members Only Mondays.
That having been said, the night overall was such fun. When we got to the CML, the line was all the way to John St. They did have things outside for the children to do, and Leeze and Reeves took advantage of that time to get their faces painted. (That's, of course, a dinosaur on R, in case you couldn't tell. A brontosaurus, I think.) When you finally did make it up to the door, it was only to put your name on a list. (That should have been the first clue.) But we did, and given the fact that it would probably be at least an hour before we were allowed, by the fire marshall to go in (another clue - maximum capacity - never a good idea to enter, even if it is legal), we headed to Juanita Greenberg's for some supper. The children were really quite well behaved. Bennett sat a the head of the table and flirted with the college girls behind him. William served as his wingman. Leeze and Reeves spent most of the time coloring, taking a break only to ingest the five bites of supper they would totally consume for the night. And we enjoyed our adult beverages. Gammy even remembered how much she likes coloring!
We finally left, and on our way back to the cars, decided to stop and see if we could just walk right in to the CML. With about a five minute wait, we could. The children loved it. I was about to explode. Bennett got so soaking wet in the water room that we had to take off his shirt because, since it was about 23 degrees outside, he would be warmer with just his jacket. Outdoor survivalists are we. Seriously, couldn't they look into changing the water room into something else for the winter? Reeves looked like Oliver Twist on the shrimp boat. He was politely holding onto his one blue fish, waiting for the basket as the aforementioned giant elementary schoolers ran amuck around him. "Mommy, is it my turn now?" Sometimes I curse these good manners we are trying to imbed in him. I wanted to scream, "Just knock them down and take it!!"
However, in spite of my ranting post above, it was ultimately a fun evening. Somehow, despite the frustrations encountered anytime you throw a bunch of children and adults into a madhouse, as long as you have your core group with you, you forget all the outside chaos, and your memories eventually amalgamate into what a wonderful night you got to have watching your children play with their cousins and grandparents. And, I imagine, years from now, that's all I'll remember. Except for the fact that I AM still counting on you for that slap in the face if I ever want to do this again!

Monday, November 24, 2008

Thanksgiving Feast at School

Reeves' class had their Thanksgiving celebration and invited all of the parents. It's amazing to me how big the classroom looks when it is only holding 12 3 year olds and how almost suffocating it becomes when you add all the parents. Nevertheless, we and the children had a great time. I went early to help set up. While we were doing that, the children were out on the playground. I happened to glance out and see that Henry's class was out there too. Then I saw Reeves and Henry find each other, and this was how they spent the remainder of their time out there, hand in hand, walking all around, pointing things out to each other and introducing each other to their friends. It was precious. (And a little wierd, since it did look like they were on a date, but it won't be long before they succomb to the societal pressures all around them, so I was sure to capture it to remind us of how cute they were.)

When the kids did come in, we went into the classroom next door and had a little Thanksgiving history lesson. They had all made bead bracelets, and they were able to tell us what all the colors stood for. Then it was time for the feast. And what a feast it was. There was enough food on Reeves' plate to last him a week. I think all of us mothers realized there was no need for everyone to bring something ever again. We'll just dole out a few food responsibilities from now on. Of course, despite being packed in like sardines, we all enjoyed watching our little ones. They said the blessing and ate about one eleventh of what was on their plates. I got to see Reeves' Thanksgiving sign that he had made. It was a picture of a turkey that said what he was thankful for. While most of the other children had put "Mommy" or "Daddy" or "My Family" on theirs, Reeves was thankful for "Honey". And no, that's not a pet or a person, it's the sweet viscous liquid that his Grandmomma has made him fall in love with. She laughed with delight when she saw the sign the next day.

We had to take this picture for Sue, since both Reeves and Eliza are in Crawford children hand-me-downs. How lucky we are that she has such good taste and such a generous disposition!

Friday, November 21, 2008

Am I Blue?

Nope, but you wouldn't have guessed it based on the playground we visited the other day. This is the one on the old navy base. Caroline and hers met us and Lolly there Monday afternoon. (Where CFS promptly stole my "on retainer" babysitter for Friday night!) It was sometimes hard to find the children because their blue clothing camoflauged them on the blue slide and the blue mat-thingy that the playground is on and the blue whirlygig. Honestly, I think this is my all time favorite playground safety floor. It is so much better than any natural mulch or sand. It is cleaner than the fake mulch made of old tires. It stays cool to the touch in the summer, and falling on it doesn't hurt anymore than falling anywhere else. This playground is great, but it is a little lacking for the under three year olds. There are no swings, and the only slide is super high, but as long as you position one adult in the crow's nest to facilitate the little ones sliding and not falling off the shear cliff, it's pretty good. Reeves and Fordham havealways loved putting acorns into this spinner. There's a little hole in the bottom, and I think they like watching the acorns fly out as they spin them around. This day is was not acorns but shells that were their main ingredient. I didn't think much of it until I later found Bennett with three said shells stuffed in his mouth. Seriously. I don't understand the appeal.
Lol became favorite grown up of the day when she pulled out the candy. R and F relished in their Tootsie Rolls, and were very protective of their "hammock" on which they were eating them.
After playground time, we walked over to the hill I love this because it is such a wonderful energy releaser in the afternoon. They climb up. They roll down. They climb up. They run down. They climb up. They slide down. Repeat as necessary until bedtime is a breeze. And if it ever snows in our fair city, we're making a beeline to this place!