For whatever we lose(like a you or a me), It's always our self we find in the sea. ~e.e. cummings
Sunday, August 24, 2008
It Does A Body Good
Saturday, May 24, 2008
Sheer Agony
Thursday, May 15, 2008
Open Wide And Say "AAAHHH!"





I was so proud of how brave my all-too-quickly growing boy was. If only each and every dental appointment could go as smoothly as this one did. Thanks Pops and Kim for making a potentially traumatic situation a happy and memorable one!

All clean!
Monday, February 25, 2008
Bennett's Six Month Stats
Saturday, January 12, 2008
Bennett's Four Month Stats
Thursday, September 27, 2007
What a Difference a Day Makes
Wednesday, September 26, 2007
Big Band-Aids for Little Boys
Update - He has had a couple of diarreahs and a huge throw up. Looks like it may be a stomach bug - hopefully. We'll know more tomorrow and over the next 72 hours as the blood culture grows. Keep Bennett in your prayers, and let's hope that this passes soon.
Thursday, August 30, 2007
Bennett's Second Checkup
His second doctor's appointment was on Wednesday. He weighed in at 7 pounds, 8 ounces. That's a gain of 14 ounces in only 10 days! We are so happy. His cord stump has fallen off, so diaper changes are now as pleasant as they can be. Everything else looks great on him. We also had another first at that appointment. We don't have to come back until his two month check up. What?!? With Reeves we were in there at least once, if not twice a week at this age. What a relief.
His latching on is still hit or miss. Unfortunately for him, he only latches on very well if he is starving, so that's what we do. No food for him until he's crying. Again, it may seem cruel, but just like you can lead a horse to water, with this child, you can offer him food, but you simply cannot get him to eat it until he is ready.
He is really starting to have some good awake time now. He is constantly looking around and making faces. His grip is getting stronger everyday, and he is getting faster and faster at unswaddling himself. We are so happy with our little Deuce and are so blessed to have him.
Tuesday, July 24, 2007
The Two Year Old Appointment


Thursday, July 05, 2007
Let Him Eat Eggs!

We started with the pricks on the arm - positive, negative, egg white, and egg yolk. 10 minutes later, after passing that test, we moved on, in ten minute successions to rubbing egg white and yolk on the cheek, the lips, the tongue. No reaction. So we gave him a teeny tiny bite - ten minutes, no reaction. The bites got bigger and bigger, but his skin stayed clear and not itchy. Finally, after finishing two eggs in just under three hours with absolutely no reaction, Reeves is now declared not allergic to eggs anymore!
We are not going to be giving him scrambled eggs for breakfast every day because we do still believe in the theory that the less exposure, the better. The longer he goes without eating lots and lots, the better the chance he will have of remaining allergy free for life. But we will begin slowly adding eggs to his repertoire. We won't avoid things that have egg as an ingredient. But it's so nice to know he can have them. That his cakes will actually have a decent consistency, that his pancakes will be light and fluffy. And best of all, we found out, during this appointment, that he LOVES scrambled eggs. He was wanting to eat them even during the required ten minute waiting time. It's like a whole new world has opened up for him. We are so happy. Now, let's just pray his milk challenge goes as well.
Wednesday, June 13, 2007
Got Milk?
By the way, Reeves did great when he had his blood drawn. He cried when they stuck the needle in, while they were withdrawing, and when the needle came out, but that was it. (It might have been the magic lollipop that did it.) I was so proud of him. He even left the bandaid on until I took it off later. Pretty big stuff for an Almost Two Year Old.
Friday, May 04, 2007
Pardon the Interruption
Yes, The Sound of Music is still at the top of the request list...
Thursday, January 18, 2007
All Better Now
The good news is that he's all better now. Slept 9 hours last night. I'm hoping he'll go for 10 tonight. And I think I found the true cause of the fever. I got him to laugh really big tonight during bathtime. Looks like his first canine has poked through. Can't wait to see what joy the other three will bring!
Thursday, December 21, 2006
18 Month Appointment

I discussed with his doctor the possibility of getting his allergies tested again, but she said that since we had rushed him to their office about a month ago with a pretty severe allergic reaction to getting straight milk one day, we didn't really need to do that just now. It's pretty safe to assume that he's still allergic. I mean, when he has intense hives all over his face and neck moments after ingestion, do we really need another piece of paper telling us that? Right.
She gave me a milestone update sheet, which she does each time. This one, his 18 month one, is titled, "Mr. No". How appropriate. Reeves can't really talk yet, but he has certainly mastered the negative headshake. And he has also picked up quite the attitude since he reached this ripe ole age of 18 months. At the moment, there is not much sweetly asking for anything. It's mostly demanding. That being said, he has quickly learned that this new attitude doesn't get much of a reaction from us, and if it does get a reaction, it is most certainly not the one he was looking for. So he compromises. He does the things we ask him to do (clean up, give kisses, one finger to touch the tree), but there is still this "amount of time" thing he needs to learn when he wants something. Getting louder and louder does not make Mommy and Dada go any faster when retrieving something. He'll get there.
Reeves was great at the appointment yesterday, but he did get a little wild towards the end of the visit. Still, no shots, so there was no crying. He was supposed to get his second Hep A shot, but as his 12 month appointment was so late (July), he can't get this till the middle of Jan. He did not get a flu shot as that is an egg based vaccine, so I've stocked up on plenty of meds just in case.
This appointment completely wore him out. We got home (after a quick trip to Kiln Time), and the child slept for four and a half hours! It was so nice. Gave me plenty of time to get things done - like making his vegan sugar cookie dough for tomorrow! I felt so Betty. As many of you know, I am not a baker, so we'll see how the actual cookies turn out, but the dough is pretty good!
Thursday, October 05, 2006
Tummy Troubles

Well, we are still dealing with the tummy thing. Bryant and I got it on Thursday, and it made my heart ache to think that Reeves was dealing with anything like the pain we were in. B had to leave work around 3:30 and go home and get in bed. I made it till 5:00, but that was only because we had an auditor in. It took all of my energy not to double over while I was talking to him! Anyway, I was shaking by the time I walked in the door, and immediately crawled under the covers. Thank heavens for Judy and Julie. They kept Reeves out there Thursday night so that Bryant and I could sleep. I don't know that we would have made it without them. We never would have gotten over it in a day, that's for sure. I should say, Bryant and I never would have, unfortunately, it is still lingering in Reeves. But luckily, he is getting better and better everyday. We have his 15 month appointment today. I'll be interested to see what his weight will be as his diet has consisted mostly of yogurt, baby rice cereal, and Teddy Grahams for most of this last week!
Wednesday, September 27, 2006
Wednesday, September 20, 2006
Update
1) What a sweet husband. Bryant said that I should reward myself with more than just not making dinner. Oh, hell yeah! But actually, not doing something is not really much of a reward. I think I need some sort of outside-the-home reward. Perhaps something involving a gift certificate to Urbanna Nirvanna.... I'm just sayin' is all.
2) Thank you, Judy and/or Julie, for sending leftover pizza home with Bryant last night. It was delicious and just what we needed.
Thursday, August 10, 2006
"It's just a flesh wound..."

Then on Friday in the country, after the disbelief that we could let Reeves hurt himself so badly, he takes a dive into the piano. Hence the wound on his cheek, just below the table wound. But not nearly as bad.
You know how things come in three's? Saturday morning, Reeves wakes up, we play a bit, and as I'm getting ready to give him his breakfast, he, out of our sight, falls and starts crying. Since we are true believers in the "shake it off" practice, we don't rush over, and he gets up and is fine. Then five minutes later, there appears, beside his eye, a mark. He must have hit the doorframe or something.
Poor thing!
But he's tough. Like Jodie said, "Good thing we don't have any portraits coming up soon!"

"The train! The train!"
"Come on, Daddy! Let's go see it!"
Thursday, July 06, 2006
Weighing In At...
We finally had his one year appointment today. Reeves weighs in at 20 pounds, 13 ounces and 31 1/2 inches long, 20th and 90th percentiles respectively. I was guessing he weighed at least 22 pounds (35 after holding him for 20 minutes), but it looks like we have just barely made it to the "turning the seat around" weight. Good thing, since I had that thing flipped the morning of his birthday! Everything is going great with him. She was impressed with the moisture in his skin - something we are very cogniscent of given his atopic dermatitis. He is pretty much solely on finger food.
He takes two bottles a day - soy milk, not formula. She said to try to ween this down to one. Shouldn't be too hard as he wanted nothing to do with his bottle tonight. She wants us to work on making the paci a bedtime, naptime thing only. This is going to be hard! He loves that thing. Any suggestions would be welcome. Normally, this appointment requires three vaccinations, however, due to Reeves' egg allergy, the MMR (measles, mumps, rubella) will be given to him at his allergist's appointment which I will make tomorrow for sometime in the end of August. So he got away today with only having his Chicken Pox and Hepatitis A shots. He also had to have blood drawn from his finger. They needed a good bit of blood, and amazingly, he didn't cry through any of it, the pricking or the squeezing. The shots, a different story. he screamed. I don't know, maybe I'm callous or maybe we've hardened ourselves to it after all the testing and IV'ing we had to do when he was little, little, but my heart doesn't break when he gets his shots. I hate to see him cry like that, but it never brings tears to my eyes. And he recovers so quickly. Just a quick scoop up and hug from Mama, and he's OK. He's such a trooper. So, that's where we stand healthwise with the BooBoo. All's well. Now, if we can just get him to control that temper....
Wednesday, March 22, 2006
How Big Is Reeves?
It is amazing the transformation just over this weekend and this week. He is now readily picking up bits of food and putting them in his mouth. He doesn't always keep them there, but it's a start. We gave him some chicken last night, and he really seamed to like it. He's not too big on peach bits yet. He loves the Gerber puffs. Peas are apparently only for mushing and flinging. I guess it's because they roll so well. Rice looks like it will be a favorite food, though. I guess he takes after his Aunt Lol, "I'll eat ma rice, but na ma paas."
Needless to say, the floor under his chair is needing multiple cleanings. This is when I wish we had a dog!