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Wednesday, May 28, 2008

For No Special Reason

I just love impromptu late night family photo shoots. Mom and Dad had watched the boys while I was playing tennis tonight so that Bryant could work late. When we finished tennis, I called B's phone and learned that they were all just sitting down to dinner. While I would have loved to have 30 or 45 minutes in my house alone, I remembered that the double jogger was down there and it wouldn't fit into B's car. I'm so glad I went over there. Dinner was just delicious - sauteed tilapia, spinach, and vidalia onion casserole (to die for!). We got home late because the rain stifled any thoughts of loading boys and gear, and since Bennett had had a power nap at the grandparents', he wasn't quite ready to go right back down when we finally did get home. Bryant got on the floor and played with both boys, and I immediately ran and grabbed the camera. Bennett is often already in bed when Bryant gets home, so this was a really special time. I just love these pictures.One of Bennett's favorite things is a ball attached to this rope. Probably not the safest toy, but he never plays with it unless we're around, and the delight it brings is worth it.He has recently been all about Daddy. I definitely play second fiddle when the Daddy's around.No one is safe when both boys attack! Bennett is really beginning to be able to join in the fun. Thankfully, Reeves doesn't seem to mind too much.Luckily, Daddy survived the attack just fine and was able to regain control.It doesn't get much better than this. All the mommy frustrations just melt away at times like these.

Saturday, May 24, 2008

Sheer Agony

Today I feel better than I have all week, and that's not to say I feel great, but I am up to about 75% which is far better than the -50% I was earlier. I have been attacked by the worst swimmer's ear I have ever had, quite possibly the worst swimmer's ear anyone has ever had. (I put that in just for you, Mom!)
On Tuesday morning we took Reeves to the hospital to have his endoscopy. He did perfectly, and the procedure actually took place on time. He recovered quickly from the anesthesia, and, much to my disappointment, didn't feel like he needed to sleep for the rest of the day. Unfortunately for him, my left ear had started hurting worse than ever. I couldn't hear anything out of it, and it was swollen and painful. I didn't have the energy to force him to take his nap. Bennett had spent Monday night with the Bairs, so when Bryant finished his day, he came home and got Reeves to go with him to go get Bennett. So sweet. This would give me time to rest and hopefully recover. No such luck. Two hours after they left, the pain was worse than ever. I called my dad. Through the tears, I asked him if he thought it would be overkill to go to the ER for swimmer's ear. He came and got me. There was something oddly reminiscent about having him take me to the ER. It is a trip he and I have taken many times over the years. I was finally sent home with Lortab, Augmenten, and Cipro drops.
So this is what my days have been since Tuesday - drugs, drops, and sleep. My children stayed out in the country this whole time. I can't thank the Bairs enough for their help with the boys. There was no way I would have been able to take care of either of them. The Lortab was the only thing in those first days that would even touch the pain, and, since they made me dizzy, nauseous, and tired, I just wouldn't have been able to mommy. We're heading out today to see the boys. I miss them more than I thought I would. Bryant has seen them everyday, but somehow, his reports just aren't quite fulfilling enough. I can't wait to have them in my arms.
I've said it before, I would rather give birth without an epidural than have this ear infection. This is by far the most neverending pain I have ever been in.

Monday, May 19, 2008

CSO on DI

Saturday night was a wonderful evening filled with great friends, beatuiful music, gorgeous weather, fabulous food, and a terrific fireworks display to cap everything off. The Charleston Symphony Orchestra played at Smythe Park, and we all set up a tailgate to enjoy the show. Apparently, there was a tailgating competition, but we, of course, weren't even thinking of that when we began our preparations. Yeah, right! We pulled out and dusted off all of our Charleston Cup decor and started our own Daniel Island Yacht Club right there. Despite the throngs of passersby who would have placed bets that we would win, we didn't even get an Honorable Mention. Perhaps it was because they didn't notice us. It's so easy to overlook a 15 foot flagpole complete with four fullsize flags waving in the breeze! Luckily, the oversight on the judges' part did not dissuade us from having a perfectly marvelous time. While we and the Smiths did most of the set up, our wonderful friends provides all the nourishment for the crowd. (Plus some divine pork tenderloin cooked up by Stephen. He truly is a grilling master!) We had everything from pickled shrimp to cucumber sandwiches to peanut butter brownies. It was quite a spread. And, as much as he drives me crazy when it comes to doing stuff like this, Bryant's flowers were just gorgeous, and his ideas always turn out great. They were the last things to be finished, but they really completed the whole layout. We had some of our dearest friends in the spot right next to us. As you can see, their theme was Crazy Mexican, and Jason just couldn't help himself! Yo quiero kaluha ice cream!
The temperature got surprisingly cool as the sun went down. Thanks to Stephen and Matt, however, some of us were able to snuggle up on the Smith's Party Porch furniture under Aileen's blanket. (Honestly, we had WICKER FURNITURE out there, and we still didn't win?) This proved to be the perfect spot to watch the fireworks. The breakdown was pleasantly uneventful and quick. I can't thank everyone enough for all they did to make this night turn out to be such a success, and special props go to Caroline for getting us all involved in the first place. It was a perfect evening spent with friends in a beautiful setting. We look forward to resurrecting the DIYC next year!

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Open Wide And Say "AAAHHH!"

Can't believe I didn't put it on the blog right after the appointment, but that's what happens when Mommy decides to take a month off from blogging - important events in the children's lives go undocumented. Oh well. This post will have to suffice.
Reeves had his first dentist's appointment on April 8. Luckily, I'd been preparing him for this day since he was a month old by making fairly regular visits to the office just to go ahead and get him acquainted. Well, that and I suppose visiting his grandfather had something to do with it. Actually, I am convinced that those past visits did indeed get him excited about finally getting into the chair where he has seen his Pops working on so many people.
Like anyone who goes to the dentist, we made sure to brush his teeth right before we went. He first got to watch me get me teeth cleaned. (No cavities, thank you!) Kim, Dad's wonderful hygenist, let Reeves assist her with my cleaning. When it was finally his turn, he jumped right up in the chair, where he got to wear some "pretty tool" sunglasses. She counted his teeth (20) and even polished a few. She told him and showed him everything she was going to do. I can't thank her enough for being so patient with him. It's not really a pediatric dental office, so I'm glad we were able to pull some strings to get in!Reeves thought it was really neat when Pops came in to check out his teeth. And naturally, I thought it was very special that Reeves got to have his grandfather do this.
I was so proud of how brave my all-too-quickly growing boy was. If only each and every dental appointment could go as smoothly as this one did. Thanks Pops and Kim for making a potentially traumatic situation a happy and memorable one!

All clean!

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

The Boy Box

And you thought there wasn't anything better than a box full of toys! See what happens when you finally clean out all the old toys.